A long engagement with a big wedding, or a tiny ceremony with a big party? Today the trend favors the latter. For young couples who want to follow this new tradition, we've created a combination housewarming and wedding shower to fête your commitment and feather your nest. Festivities include having guests choose a room in your new house to help decorate. Pottery Barn wants to shower all new couples — including city hall newlyweds and those who choose to just invite the immediate family — with the gifts that make dream homes come true.